In Search Of Hapiness.....

After so much nice comments and encouragement for my first blog I believe that I was able to convey the message to you all. But this is not the end. The journey has just started. A journey of a thousand mile starts with a single step, and I have taken that single step successfully. Now what next…?

Let’s talk about something which is a bit different. something which is known to everybody but which is hidden somewhere deep in their heart. let me bring those things right in front of you to think... :)

In the today’s hi-tech competitive world of real business everything is changing very rapidly, the technology, the market, the needs, requirements of the individual, the standard of living… everything. Now the only thing which is constant is change. People are so busy among themselves that they don’t have time for others around them. there is cut-throat competition everywhere. Everybody wants to move ahead in the race of life, wants to be the first, and for that, not all, but most of them even don’t hesitate to use unethical ways of surpassing their competitors. In my one year of experience at ICFAI so far, I have seen this happen and in good numbers. Many a time I feel that people are totally ignoring what matters the most. And that is love and friendship. Many a time people give higher priority to their goals and objectives over the relationships which they have and need to maintain with the others.

Hence in this write-up what I am focusing on is the importance of relationships in life, friendships, love, “THE IMPORTANCE OF HAPPINESS IN LIFE”. In today’s busy life it is very-very important for us to realize that we are living in a social environment, everybody is not our competitor but there are also friend hidden behind and peeping through the nook towards us with a friendly smile. We all want to have someone in life who cares about us, makes us realize that there is someone for us who is always at our side, one who fights with others for us, make us realize that how important we are to him/her or them, who always wants us to smile. But for that we also need to realize that we are not so busy to ignore such important relations in life. We need to give importance to all the small rays of light peeping through the darkness and making us realize that life is not all about competition, work, money, etc. life says that we need to enjoy every bit of it which we have got. We should not forget the fact that time which passes away once never comes back. Hence we need to make optimum utilization of the available time in our hand not only for earning money, prestige, successful career, but, for EARNING HAPPINESS. Earn happiness in life. Give priority to those which leads you towards the path of happiness.

Some people think that money is everything, a means to achieving the ultimate happiness. Earning money is directly proportional to happiness. More money means more happiness, and a comfortable living. But this is not the truth. What matters the most is not how much money you earn, but how much happiness, joy, friendship, love and satisfaction you earn. I have seen a lot of people not satisfied with what they have got. They are always complaining about the things which they have got, things which they come across. But what I feel is instead of complaining, showing dissatisfaction towards them we should try to find the good in them. What I would say is “IF YOU DO NOT GET THE BEST, TRY TO EXTRACT THE BEST OF WHAT YOU GET”. This will definitely make you satisfied and satisfaction is the road to happiness. (That is the reason why you would not find me complaining about the things which I have got around me).

There is lot of happiness spread around you. You only need to see them feel them and the most important of all preserve them. Try to look at your life in a more optimistic way and then you will find the world the happiest place to live in. So friends be happy and…

Enjoy Life… :)